Why Can’t You Be Normal Like Me?

Why can’t the people in our lives just be more normal, like us? Dr. Mike Ladra is joined by his wife, Susie, for a funny and honest look at marriage and relationships. They share stories on each other: Viagra on the tomatoes, a near-miss on a sailboat, and a grocery-store standoff. Along the way, they show why criticism never changes anyone, why taming our tongue is part of letting Jesus be Lord, and why the best relationships are built by forgivers and good listeners.

How To Heal From Hurtful Criticism

Are you still carrying the sting of words someone said to you years ago? Dr. Mike Ladra looks at how the Apostle Paul was harshly criticized by the very people he had led to Christ, yet could still say, “We know sorrow, but our joy is inextinguishable.” He shares how to heal from criticism without waiting for an apology. Remember that even Jesus was criticized. Don’t argue with critics. Refuse to give anyone the power to steal your joy. And when a critic is right, have the courage to say, “You are right.”

Never Put A Critic In Charge Of Your Happiness!

Jesus is the most criticized person in history. Even when He healed people and set them free, His critics called Him satanic. Dr. Mike Ladra shows that no one, not even someone perfect, can escape criticism. He explains why critics are often driven by envy rather than facts, and why you should never take criticism from someone you’d never go to for advice. He encourages us to stop arguing with determined critics, to take responsibility for our own joy instead of letting anyone steal it, and to have the humility to say “You’re right” when a critic has a point.

Anyone Feeling Defective?

Leah was “the one with weak eyes,” always compared with her beautiful sister Rachel and never chosen. Yet God turned her story around. Dr. Ladra looks at how Leah was healed of feeling defective and gives three ways we can be healed too. Focus on your assets instead of your flaws. Stop giving critics permission to define you. Talk to yourself the way you’d talk to someone you love.